‘Munro Country’ by Cheryl Strayed

This is the only nonfiction piece on my list, an essay more than a short story. I’m bending the rules because much of it is about a short story, ‘The House with the Horse and the Blue Canoe’, which Strayed wrote when she was 24. She won a prize with it and sent it off to Alice Munro, the great writer, who she’d admired for years. The essay is about what happens next and about how art inspires longing. 

“Her mother had died young too, and she haunts the pages of Munro’s stories the way my own mother began to haunt mine. I read Munro through my sorrow, rereading certain stories and scenes over and over again, memorizing particular sentences.”

Published in The Missouri Review, June 2009, available here

‘The Love of My Life’ by Cheryl Strayed

This is personal essay at its strongest and most powerful. I love how Cheryl Strayed lays herself bare, so brave to lean into the tensions within all of us – the difficult self-delusory spaces when we are in a state of crisis. She is deep in grief but only really grasps it as the essay progresses; but it manifests itself in her infidelity and hurting others.

First published in the journal The Sun, 2002, and available to read online here